missing someone......
missing something is such a wonderful thing........

it helps in getting our memories rush through the darkness of past...... it also makes us appreciate the thing we are missing..... makes us happy........ makes us feel good.....

but whom do we miss???

we miss those whom we love.....

we miss those with whom we have shared some of the happiest moments of our life......

we miss even those with whom saddest moments of our life were attached....

we miss wats dear to us...... we miss those good things happened in our life.....

we miss with whom we were attached......

but when do we miss them in our life?? .......

but what leads us to miss those things??

are we really missing those things or are we...??


thinking carefully n very intensely i found out that we are actually not missing that particular person but in fact we are missing that person's worth.... its importance...... its the situation which leads us to miss that person....miss that person's presence..... the need of hour makes us miss that person's usefulness.........

so its quite evident that many times its bcoz of the circumstance we remember some one's importance which then leads us to miss them......

in reality we are not missing them but we are missing their worth......
its then that we remember (miss) that person.....

but many a times we miss many things just coz we were unconditionally attached to it...... they were special to us.... and there is no reason which leads us to miss them.... its just that we miss them.....

like who does not miss the hug he received from his mother whenever he used to go to school in his childhood....who does not miss the tears in his mother's eyes whenever he used to succeed or win a prize.... who does not miss his mother waiting endless for his son to come from school and have lunch with him......
who does not miss those days when at night you were told fairy tales by your mother.....

the days when your grandparents used to give u a toffees quietly when you were not supposed to eat them......

who does not miss those childhood days when you did not even know how to tie your shoe lace when it got opened in school and then a helping friend tying it....
who does not miss those school days when u used to walk in a line and did not allow any one to enter in between....

who does not miss his love? the blush he received from her for the first time? who does not miss the day when he first time took his lover's hands in his hand.....

similarly who does not miss the invigilator who quietly told u the answer at the examination centre......


everyone misses something or the other without any reasons for it.......

but many times we actually are not missing someone in reality..... we are just missing its...????think over it people whenever you miss someone......n then decide what are you missing......

need which makes us miss(remember) something is called remembering something............
and the things we
remember (miss) without any need is called missing something........